Can a liberal and a conservative survive in a long-term marriage? Rick Hotchner and Barbara Thomas have managed to make it work for more than a decade, and discuss their relationship in some deep sharing on this interview.
Here are some of my takeaways from their conversation:
- “Have the conversation about HOW you talk to each other about big disagreements.”
- “Try to understand people, not to change them”
- “Toxicity is NOT inevitable” and you don’t have to engage with “snipers” who try to bait you.
Not surprisingly, the two are involved in Braver Angels, a group that exists to foster dialogue across the political divide.
This is an issue important enough to me that I have a category in this blog called “Talking to the Other Side.” If you click on the tab with that label, you’ll see all my posts on that topic. You’ll also see a whole lot of discourse between liberals/progressives and conservatives over the last many years of my Facebook feed. And yes, I go to as many Braver Angels events as I can.
